MetroMom Alexandra Smith
Mother to 3 years and 1 year old boys and pregnant with a third

MB - What part of your life changed the most since becoming a mom?

I think that my life was great before kids, but there's no comparison to the joy everyday that my sons bring me. I  think that what has changed the most is my ability to take a step back and not get angry about the little things, I'm definitely more easy going. I found that while my kids would have fit in my life the way it was, I really had to take a look at what was important to me and make some changes because nothing is more important than my kids.

MB - What is your most memorable moment of becoming a mom?

The first time Elijah came running to me with the biggest grin on his face and his arms open wide.  It's the most incredible feeling to have your child come and lay their head on you with complete trust and even though they may not be able to say "I love you," you know it and I'm so grateful to be able to experience that.

MB - You have two young kids and another on the way - are you ready for three?

I'm a little scared to have 3 kids!  Elijah is 3 and Israel will be 20 months when this next baby is born so I'm a little concerned about being able to give each child the attention they deserve, but I'm sure it will all work itself out.

MB - Why did you decide to train in midwifery?

I'm a big advocate of natural birth and breastfeeding and I think it's important that every woman know that she is powerful and strong and totally capable of giving birth any way she wants. I think birth is magical and I would feel so blessed to be able to participate in an event that will be one of the most important events of a family's life. 

MB - You were nominated by a friend, and are often surrounded by them! What advice can you give to first time moms about making new friends?

Join some mothers groups! It's an easy way to find friends for your children, get out of the house, and there's very little pressure. If you walk up and decide that you're not ready to step out of your safety zone, then you can keep walking but at least you got out of the house!  Places like the Wiggly Play Center, or even the play area of McDonalds or Toys R Us are also great places to meet other moms. You already know you have something in common...Kids!

MB - What is the best advice you received about being a mom or raising a child? 

Relax.  Rest when your baby rests and don't worry about the dishes!
 
MB - If you could give another mom or expectant mom one piece of advice, what would it be?

Listen to your instincts and do what feels right for you and your baby. Don't let others make you feel bad about what you think is best for your baby. This is your baby and as the mother, I'm sure you will always do what you think is best for your baby.

MB - Do you have a motto you would like to share with other moms?

Don't worry, be happy! Okay, I know it's a song but it's totally true and there are some days when I have to say to myself that it's not worth getting mad, I just need to laugh it off.

MB - What is your favorite MetroMoms event to date and why?

I love the StrollArt events!  I feel so much more comfortable going with a bunch of other moms and kids so that if mine are fussy or loud, I'm not the only one. It's so fun getting the tours and I learn so much more because of the guides. Plus I feel like I'm doing a "grown up" event and Elijah has so much fun too!