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MB - What is your most memorable moment of becoming a
mom?
There’s no way to prepare for the minute they hand you
the most precious gift you’ve ever had, so when they
laid Cash on my chest just after he was born, we just
looked at each other. I think he was just as surprised
as me to be lying there. We just stared. I touched his
sweet face & smiled at him as I told him how happy I was
that he was finally here. I’ll never forget when I saw
his eyes and lips for the first time.
MB - What adjustments have you had to make to balance
work and motherhood?
Prior
to becoming a mom, all my time was for myself. I could
work when I wanted, travel when I wanted, socialize when
I wanted, get my hair cut on a whim, shop anytime I
wanted….I could do anything, anytime, anywhere for me.
I worked all the time (day and/or night, most the time
both). As soon as Cash was born, my time was for my
family. I still work extremely diligently and put a lot
of myself into my job. But, when Cash gets home in the
evenings, all my time is for him. And, I wouldn’t have
it any other way! We play, take a "splish-splash,"
giggle, roll over, grab toys, sit up, spit up, cry, and
play some more. The evening time is so precious, and my
work instantly took a back seat to Cash.
MB -
How did you become interested in the healthcare
industry?
I have
a science background and a pre-med degree. Although I
graduated magna cum laude with a BS in Biology (perfect
scenario to enter medical school), I could not commit
within myself to be in that career long term. I knew I
was interested in the healthcare industry, but I wanted
to combine my energetic lifestyle with my science
background. Sales in the healthcare industry was an
avenue to do that, so I ventured down that path.
MB -
Cord blood banking sounds so technical - how would you
explain it in 1-2 sentences to an expectant couple?
It’s a
hard question because it is technical…I guess I
would say, "Banking
cord blood stem cells is a non-controversial way to
protect you and your family (most importantly, your
children) for today, as well as for years to come.
There is obviously no harm to mother or child, and
many diseases are
treatable and/or curable today with cord blood stem
cells. Call Viacord’s educated clinical consultants
to ask any questions you might have or go online at
www.viacord.com for more information."
MB -
What is
a typical weekend day in your house?
We
still wake up at 6:00 or 6:30am, but we don’t have the
pressure of a weekday. I am very lucky because my
husband and I have a very active lifestyle that changes
all the time. We are rarely home all day on the
weekends, but we think of Cash first. Last Saturday, we
woke up, fed Cash, took him for a walk around our
neighborhood, and then went to the gym. Our gym has
excellent childcare, so Cash gets to play with new
friends there all the time. They watch him for 2 hours
at a time, so we usually do that at some point in the
day on Saturday and Sunday. After we worked out, we took
Cash to the pool for his first time to swim. He loved
it, but of course, he got sleepy. I didn’t get very much
sun, but when he smiled with daddy in the water, nothing
else mattered. He is eating cereal now, so we have to
make sure we get it to him consistently three times a
day. We came home around 6:30 pm and started getting him
ready for bed. It was a terrific Saturday for our
family!
MB - How do you maintain your sense of style?
I
thought it would be harder to be stylish once I had a
baby, but I’ve been pleasantly surprised. I believe
being physically fit and healthy is key to looking and
feeling good all the time. If you are healthy and happy,
you can create your own style. I love people who radiate
happiness and confidence from the inside out. Inner
peace is one of the easiest things to recognize, yet
remains one of the hardest things to achieve. In
addition to keeping in shape, I also read quite a bit. I
have a sinful addiction to
People and US Magazine, so I take fashion
ideas away from those magazines. I also read People
Style Watch each season, as well as other fashion
magazines. This year, Greg surprised me with a trip to
LA, so it was nice to see the versatility and
functionality in the fashions for the season.
MB - What activities do you like to do with Cash and
why?
I love
to lay Cash on the bed and listen/watch him talk to me.
He squeals, laughs, "talks," rolls over. It’s the best
part of my day. I also love to show him new things. I
love watching his eyes when he sees something new. They
are so bright & innocent. He will just stare and try to
process each new thing.
MB -
What is the best advice you received about being a
mom or raising a child?
One of
my best friends (mother of two beautiful girls) told
me…when the time is right and they are ready, they will
learn anything you need them to. She was telling me
about potty training her oldest. She said she tried too
early and her daughter wasn’t ready. She said it didn’t
go well and she fought her the whole time. bout a month
later, she tried again on a weekend (her daughter was
ready), and she learned in two days. She said, "If you
force it, you’ll have to fight. If you wait to the right
time, it’s easy." I’ve already experienced that to be
true with Cash.
MB - If you could give another mom or expectant mom one
piece of advice, what would it be?
I
guess it very cliché, but I’d have to say…"Don’t sweat
the small stuff." You always have other people trying to
tell you what’s right for their age…what developmental
step they should be at now, etc. But, I have so many
things I want Cash to know about life that doesn’t
include being the "first" to do things. I want him to
know about life in its entirety. I want him to know how
to pay attention to people, realize when someone needs
him, see situations in their complexity and recognize
how he can actively participate. I want him to share
himself with others and listen to people when they
speak. There is so much more to life than being the
"first" to walk. If you can remember it’s not a race,
maybe it will help to raise a well rounded child.
MB - Do you have a motto you would like to share with
other moms?
When
Greg and I got married, I loved this quote. I think it’s
true to life not only with yourself, but in marriage,
raising your child, facing death and disease, etc. It’s
a very simple, common quote, but I love it. It is: "Work
like you don’t need to money; Love like you’ve never
been hurt; and, Dance like nobody’s watching." Also,
raise your children to be happy, healthy, balanced
people!
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