MetroMom Sung Hee Ahn-Upton
Cancer researcher at the Rockefeller University in New York, and mom to baby Adrienne

Sung grew up in Saudi Arabia and came to the United States to attend the high school in Michigan, where she met her husband, John. She graduated from the Rockefeller University. She and her husband moved to Dallas in 2006 and their baby, Adrienne, joined the family on April 24, 2007.

MB - Why did you decide to go into science?

I came to the U.S. to continue my musical education in flute. However, my childhood dream of becoming a classical musician was ultimately replaced by that of becoming a researcher when I developed tendonitis in my right hand. At first, it was disheartening to see a goal that I wanted so much, complicated by factors I could not control. In an attempt to stage a quick recovery, I turned to anatomy books to better understand the human hand and muscle system. This brought a new interest. I was enthralled by how a simple movement of one body part required such a complex system of anatomy. As I progressed through high school I became fascinated with science.

MB - Do you prefer to concentrate on research or on patient care, and why?

Personally, I prefer to concentrate on the research side of the cancer. Cancer is responsible for more than ½ million deaths each year in the U.S. alone and the field is always looking for the new treatment and the “wonder” drug. I believe that this can be achieved by understanding the molecular mechanisms contributing to cancer. Since I have Ph.D. in the basic science research, I have been able to translate the recent advancement of basic cancer research into clinically applicable therapies that are more effective and less traumatic for patients..

MB - What is your most memorable moment of becoming a mom?

My most memorable moment as a mom was the day that Adrienne was born. Her eyes were open and looked directly at me as soon as she was born. She also held onto one of my finger with her hand. She didn’t cry, instead cooed when I called her name. Immediately, I felt in love with her and I knew that she would always be my little girl. I will never forget that moment.

MB - What is the best advice you received about being a mom or raising a child?

My mother-in-law told me to trust my instincts. She told me that I will know my baby better than anyone else. She also told me that everyday that goes by I will know more than I did about being a mommy than the day before.

MB - If you could give another mom or expectant mom one piece of advice, what would it be?

Rest. I mean, really rest. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your baby. When the baby sleeps, take a nap or lie down. The first few weeks is a huge time of healing for your body. Don't push it. Allow other people to pamper you. If someone offers to help, actually give them something to do. And do something nice for yourself everyday - take a bubble bath, order take-out, read your favorite magazine or book for 15 minutes or so. It’s important to take care of yourself too.

MB - Do you have a motto you would like to share with other moms?

“Live everyday like it’s your last” I think it’s important to live your life to the fullest everyday since we don’t know what will happen next. So I try to be the best wife, mother, daughter, and sister to my family.

MB - What is your favorite "Mom-Essential" item?

I love my bugaboo stroller. I got it as a gift from my mother-in-law and it’s been with me everywhere. The stroller comes with the bassinet which has been used as a portable crib when I travel with Adrienne. Now, she is big enough to use the seat and she enjoys observing passerbys. I love that she can face me or face the world.

MB - What is your favorite MetroMoms event to date?

I like the StrollArt events. I have only been to the DMA, but I really enjoyed the private guided tour and meeting other moms. In addition, my daughter likes looking at bright color pictures. I think it’s a great opportunity to introduce and teach her to appreciate art at the early ages.